When Joy Is Unhealthy

by David Rollert

In our examination on the importance of joy, one might get the impression that being joyful is good in every situation, unless sorrow is specifically called for. However, situations exist in which people should not take joy - yet some people do. When this happens, it is generally a symptom of deeper problems.

The one who lacks sense. Proverbs 15:21 says, “Folly is joy to him who lacks sense, but a man of understanding walks straight.” This proverb is interesting because of the word translated “sense” by the NASB. The New King James renders this word as discernment.” The Hebrew word carries the idea of the heart or inner man, a person’s ability to consider deep ideas or have depth of character. So, putting this proverb into modern terms we could say that, “the shallow person takes joy in unwise decisions.” Most of us have probably at some point known a person who, while intelligent, doesn’t use common sense. They don’t consider the repercussions of their actions. They find joy in activities that are unwise or degrading. Taking joy in folly is not a wise or godly trait.

The one who rejoices at others’ misfortune. Proverbs 17:5 tells us, “He who mocks the poor taunts his Maker; He who rejoices at calamity will not go unpunished.” This describes a person who rejoices in calamity and mocks those who are less fortunate. This shows a distinct lack of empathy and care for one’s fellow human. Rejoicing in calamity will often even lead to one causing calamity for entertainment. This can be seen in many of the dangerous trends that have gone through social media. Influencers encourage people to eat dangerous substances, go to dangerous places, or intentionally harm others - all to get people to “Like, follow and subscribe.”

A twisted conscience. Everything we discussed here can be boiled down to a person whose conscience has been twisted to rejoice in evil. Proverbs 12:20 states, “Deceit is in the heart of those who devise evil, but counselors of peace have joy.” It is entirely possible for a person’s heart to be filled with evil rather than good. This means that people who buy into the folly of making decisions by “following your heart” have a problem. Those who believe that God speaks to them through their emotions have an even bigger problem. These individuals often believe God wants them to act on the desires of their heart – even if the desires are evil! However, Proverbs 28:26 shows that, “He who trusts in his own heart is a fool, But he who walks wisely will be delivered.” Following your heart is not a trustworthy path. The heart can be misled and badly trained. It cannot be trusted, especially by one whose heart has been twisted toward evil. Instead, we must trust God’s word, even when it goes against what the heart desires.

Godly joy is good, healthy, enduring, and a worthy goal. Ungodly joy is damaging and deceitful. What kind of joy do you habitually seek? Examine your habits in light of God’s word and seek the enduring joy that comes by submitting to Him.